sobz... so sad..its time to form grouping again... As my class always have this probz of forming in grp of 4s- and 5s... class conflicts never fails to occur...
"i dun wan her to b in my grp..." and
"either do I!"
These are the most common phrase tat we always hear... people dun wan A to be with them mayb bcoz of character?... or B is too weak, so have to be thrown out.... haiz... Well, only the strongest survive in this world... u have to be strong so as to stay around... everyone wants to b with the strongest person... X is one of those everyone wans to b with... COz... he got gd results? or... mayb he's helpful?? or juz to b blunt... they wan to make use of him... Well... Wad are frenz for..?
Think this way... u may look for someone when u r having probz... looking for his help... but... have u think of him wan u wan to share ur joy...?? have u thanked him for his help after u got wad u wan?? or... is it... is a muz for him to help u..? R u taking him for granted??
So wad abt A? is she ur fren or u call her juz becoz she can help u in certain way?? have u considered about her feelings?? if u dun wan to group with her, how will she think?? they tend to tink about themselves and din put themselves in one's shoe... We're a|| humans... and NOT a ball.. not for u to throw here and there...!!
A might not b strong in programming, but she might be able to provide suggestions... as for C and D... u appear to b their good frenz... close frenz... but when come to project where are u??
"wad frenz are for?" u can throw them out to "die"... phrasing nicely, "i let u all decide u wan to b with who for ur project"... which actually means... "i have someone better in mind... u can jolly well go find other ppl to work with..." Is tat call gd fren?? Ain't gd frenz (R and P) supposed to stick together?? even for project?? Aint they supposed to go thru thin and thick??
in this case... there are frenz... who u r not so close with L and M, they are willing to help u, take u in their group... thinking R and L supposed to b ur gd fren... and they treat u liddat... throw u out of the grp...tinking u shouldn't trust them... or... even to befriend with them... C? at least L and M will feel injustify for u...! but... where is R and P?? haiz...
i'm utterly disappointed with them... To tink they're ur "gd frenz" huh..!
haha... "GOOD FRENZ" indeed... making the "right" frenz... and having the "right" cliques for the past 2 and a half yr...